Throw back Thursday to this session I shot when we just moved into our Saskatoon photography studio. I can't wait to have somewhere warm to shoot that is simple and stunning all winter long. We have a few fall sessions still available and are booking into the chillier months. Once I'm all caught up with editing, I will be posting some of the sessions we have been working on.
Prints vs. Files - Saskatoon photographers
Did you know we offer a wide variety of products, including digital files and prints? We have a lot of clients order wall portraits from us along with the digital files... some do it for the convenience, some do it for the quality, and others do it for the extra retouching! The first image is straight out of camera and the second is the extent of retouching we do when you purchase a wall portrait through us.
Beautiful baby girl - Saskatoon photographers
This couple first graced our camera a few years ago, when we shot their engagement session! We have since shot their wedding and now newborn photos here in Saskatoon. I'm actually a tad bit behind with posting, as they just brought their beautiful baby girl into the studio for her 3 month photos last week. She is so beautiful, and lucky to have such wonderful parents! I honestly can not say enough good things about this little family.
Meet the newest addition to the family... their gorgeous baby girl!
The value of a photograph - Saskatoon photographers
I saw a quote a month or two ago and it said...
"You never really know the value of a photograph until long after it's taken."
This sits with me on so many levels. Not only do I think about this all the time with my sessions, it hits so close to home with my personal photos. This is the reason I get my family photos done every year. This is a shot of my girl and I, a few years ago, at our annual family session. I love the wrinkle in her nose, and me looking adoringly at her. I know when she gets to my age, she is going to cherish this photo even more than I do today. She's not going to see my double chin, or my wrinkles, or my crooked nose. She's going to see the connection between her and I, and how stinkin' adorable she is. She might even see her own kids in her squinty smile, and laugh at how ugly my jacket is. What I do know, is she will look back at this photo, long after I'm gone and it will be worth so much more in years to come, than it was the day it was taken.
Photo credit: The Harstones
Happy weekend! - Saskatoon photographer
It's Friday!!! Dance like no one is watching....
Mom and me - Saskatoon Photographer
Right before Mother's Day, we had a promotion on for 'Mom & Me' sessions, which came with a pedicure from Just for You Day Spa as well as a super sweet swag bag... this mom took advantage of our package and came into the studio with her adorable princess for their mom and me session. We got so many gorgeous shots!!! I think this little girl is going to cherish these images in a couple of decades. I would die to have images like this of me with my mom *cough* 30 some years ago *cough*.
A surprise wedding in Saskatoon!!!
I got a phone call last summer... my cousin was recently engaged to an amazing girl, and they wanted to get some engagement photos done here in Saskatoon before an anniversary party they were planning. After a brief conversation, his fiance said she would call me back to discuss further what they had wanted as far as the session goes. She called me back and confided that their engagement photos would actually be a surprise wedding! Only their parents knew, and well, now me. Fast forward to the day of their 'engagement party' AKA surprise wedding last October!
I showed up at the James hotel in their beautiful penthouse suite. My cousin and his fiance were there with their parents/grandparents and some special kids, who had no idea they were about to be a flower girl and ring bear. At this point only the parents and myself new we were about to witness a wedding later that evening! We started the day with the bride slipping into her gorgeous wedding gown, we stepped outside the bedroom and everyone seemed a bit confused. They yelled SURPRISE! We are getting married today!!! The look on everyone's faces were priceless. We ventured off the the U of S for a little mini session with just the bride and groom, then went to the Saskatoon club where the bride slipped into a different dress for the 'engagement party'. Guests started to arrive to a beautifully decorated room, enjoyed some appy's, and visited.
As a diversion right before supper, I arranged to get everyone outside for a group photo. We came back into the room to find all the chairs all lined up like there was a ceremony about to happen. Everyone looked a bit confused and the excitement grew! We ushered everyone into the ceremony part of the room, and the ceremony began. I have never felt so much excitement in one room before. The energy was out of this world! There were so many tears of joy and so many smiles on everyone's faces! If you are ever thinking of having a surprise wedding, I highly suggest it. It was the most emotional wedding we have ever been to.
So here it is... my first ever surprise wedding! I sure hope it's not my last... it was freakin' amazing!!!
Conquering Fears - Saskatoon Photographers
One of my goals this year, was to enter image competition at our national salon through the professional photographers of Canada. I have been a bit hesitant in the past for a few reasons, but the largest one was I was chicken. Well, myself and 3 others made a bet that we had to enter this year. This year the judges were tough... OK, that might be a bit of an understatement! There were award winning photographers who didn't get any images accepted, my jaw was on the floor for most of the competition as incredible image after incredible image was getting rejected.
When I found out one of mine was accepted to hang at image salon I was more than thrilled!!! I shot this image last summer when we had all of those awful forest fires... the smoke was awful, but we got some truly unique wedding images here in Saskatoon. My mentor pushed me to enter this image (and I'm glad I listened! LOL).
The first image is straight out of camera, you can see working with the smoke wasn't easy for these shots where the bride and groom were far away. That was my biggest hurdle with this image. Luckily my bride and groom were so photogenic and made the posing so easy!
The second image was what my client received, which is our standard retouching for all of our wedding images.
The third was retouched for about 8 hours specifically for image salon, which is quite a bit more time than I would spend on an average wedding image, but the results helped me place!
All in all, I was so happy that I entered. I learned a lot! Some of which was how to shoot and edit for salon, while others was posing and composition for my every day shooting. I'm so happy I finally concurred my fears, bit the bullet and entered. Now wish me luck for next year!
Calling new Saskachewan Photograpers!!!
We have been busy preparing a brand new mentorship program, which includes one full year of business and photography classes, for up and coming and new photographers who have been in business for 3 years or less. This program is designed for those of you who want to take their passion for photography and turn it into their livelihood! We are so excited to take on 4 new photographers, one of which from Saskatoon and area, and 3 photographers from at least 100km from Saskatoon.
We are looking for motivated individuals who have a positive outlook and a drive to become a successful working photographer. Topics will range from posing, lighting, pricing, to having a complete business plan at the end of the year course. We are literately providing our proteges with all of our secrets to starting and maintaining a successful portrait business.
You can find out all the details for the program HERE.
Please inquire within for an application form!
Celebrating all moms this Mother's Day...
With Mother's day right around the corner we wanted to write a blog post about something that isn't often talked about but should be celebrated: All of the mother's who don't physically hold their children in the arms, but hold their children in their hearts. All the Mother's who have lost a child.
Last October we had a past client message us. She had received some devastating news. She was 32 weeks pregnant and had lost her baby. Here is their story:
"Mark and I have been together since 2009, and have been married for 2 years. Constantly surrounded by a slew of adorable nieces and nephews, we were excited to start our own family. We found out we were pregnant in April 2015, and due December 21 - one day before Mark's 30th birthday; we were so excited for our precious combination birthday/Christmas gift to arrive.
I had a textbook perfect pregnancy. I felt great, we had a fantastic OBGYN and local family doctor, and we got to see our baby twice via ultrasound; once at 12 weeks and again at 20 weeks. Everything was perfect, baby was growing and developing on track, we were enjoying feeling baby's kicks, picking out names and getting the nursery ready.
By mid-October, we had started visiting the doctor’s office every 2 weeks to get measured, weighed and listen to the heartbeat.
On October 26th, at 32 weeks, we went in for our standing appointment, and couldn't hear the heartbeat. Our doctor instructed us to leave immediately and drive straight to RUH, where she would call ahead and arrange for someone to be waiting for us at fetal assessment. Before we left she hugged us both and said, "I am worried for you, but whatever happens, we will get you through this". We drove the one hour to Saskatoon in almost complete silence, holding hands, and with tears streaming down both of our faces. Although we didn't officially know anything, we were both preparing ourselves for the worst.
When we arrived at fetal assessment, I was admitted and they again tried to find baby’s heartbeat. When they still couldn’t find it, they quickly moved us into the ultrasound room for a scan. One of the on-call doctors scanned me, turned to us and said the words no expecting parents ever dream of hearing, "I'm so sorry, but your baby has passed." We then had a short discussion about our options and decided we would head home to pack a bag, turn around and come back to the hospital. It was in the ultrasound that the doctor suggested that we might still want to pick out a name for our baby, bring something special for baby to wear and perhaps invite a photographer to join us in the delivery room.
On our drive home we called our immediate family members and let them know what had happened. Walking into our house, past our baby's room and trying to pack a bag to go to the hospital was so surreal. We had no idea what we would need. I went into the baby's room to get a receiving blanket and a onesie and that's when reality really hit me, we were going to the hospital to have our baby, but we would never be bringing our baby home.
On our drive back into the city, I contacted Mandy, I had just seen her the weekend before when I participated in a wonderful photography workshop she facilitated. We made it back to the hospital and checked into the antepartum ward around 9:00pm. The nurses were wonderful, they were all so empathetic and truly caring, it was a good thing I had thought to grab a few boxes of quality Kleenex, as it was definitely well used that evening. I was induced and my contractions started around midnight. We didn't get much sleep that night, although we tried. My contractions were fairly steady all throughout the next morning and they started helping me manage the pain. Tuesday evening, they moved us into a delivery room and our son, Connor, was peacefully born still at 5:41pm on October 27, 2015 at 2lbs 12oz and 15" long. Mandy arrived shortly afterwards, as did my parents and sisters. My mom had bought a little preemie onesie and even that seemed huge on him. We spent a few hours with Connor, holding him and trying to memorize every little feature. He was absolutely perfect. The nurses and doctors were so compassionate and let us have all the time we wanted with him. We said our final goodbye and moved back to our antepartum room. After making some arrangements, filling out paperwork and speaking to the doctors, we were discharged around midnight.
The next few days were a flood of visitors, flowers and hugs. Very much appreciated but also very overwhelming. One thing I did not put much thought into was that even though my baby had passed, my body did not know that, causing me to experience all the joys of post-partum motherhood, with a houseful of neighbors and relatives. I also learned that with any birth after 20 weeks - live or still - you are entitled to a maternity leave of 17 weeks. Although, I thought at the time I would want to go back to work soon to stay busy and occupy my mind, I quickly came to the realization that I was physically and mentally exhausted. I needed that time away from work and I am very fortunate to have a very understanding employer and group of coworkers who are so supportive.
The following few weeks were so tough. I felt angry. I blamed myself, I thought "I should have known," I felt like I had let down my husband and robbed his child from him. All I could think about was how unfair this whole situation was. Living in a small rural town, there were plenty of our friends having babies at the same time. I felt envious, why did they get to have these beautiful, precious, healthy babies and we didn't? Looking back I realize these are all normal parts of the grieving process, but at the time, I did not feel normal. Especially once the world starts moving again at its everyday pace and you are still standing there thinking "did that really just happen?".
One thing my doctor reiterated to us, was that there was no point of intervention; no way we could have known we were going to lose Connor, and nothing we could have done. While, off the start, this didn't make me blame myself any less, I think the more I repeated it, the more I started to believe it. She also told us, repeatedly: whatever you need, we will get you through this, one day at a time.
One of the most comforting things after Connor’s passing, were messages from friends and family members just letting us know we had their support, prayers and love. It was a great reminder that we weren't alone and had so many wonderful people who loved us and cared about us and our child. I don't know if there is a right thing to say or do when someone is experiencing grief. I think the best thing to do is to reach out to them, in whatever way you can, and let them know that you care and that they are not alone. The home cooked meals and frozen casseroles were another blessing. It was so nice in the time following, to be able to pull something out, and not have to think about cooking. We also received many thoughtful and beautiful gifts from family and friends. Although it was such an overwhelming time for us, not one of these heartfelt gestures went unnoticed, being surrounded by so much love and kindness helped our hearts start to heal.
The photos that Mandy took, have helped me heal so much; they are a precious memory that we will always have to help us remember our beautiful baby boy. I will always be so grateful to Mandy for her professionalism, thoughtfulness and compassion, there is no value I could ever place on the memories that she captured for us."
All of us at Memories by Mandy would like to personally thank this couple for allowing us to capture such an intimate time in their lives, and also allowing us to share their story. It was an absolute honor to capture Connor. This session was by far my most emotional session to date, but it gave me the courage to want to help other families. I have volunteered for an incredible organization called Empty Arms. If you or someone you know as suffered through child loss at any stage in pregnancy or after birth, please contact them for support. Here are all the details of this incredible organization:
What is Empty Arms?
Empty Arms Perinatal Loss Support Services Inc. is a new charity that serves Saskatoon and area. It is the legacy of my daughter, Jael Herchak, who was born still at 20 weeks gestation on May 6th, 2013. After Jael was born, my husband and I left the hospital in shock and heartbroken. After some time, we began to regret all of the things we did not do before we said our final goodbyes to Jael.
The time a family has with their little one is far too short and so very precious. Experiencing the death of a baby, under any circumstances, is such a lonely experience and having the specialized supportof someone who can help navigate those moments can make all of the difference in the world. We want to ensure that families make the most of the time they have with their baby and that their experience is as positive as possible, given the circumstances.
We offer support and services to families whose babies die before, during, or after birth in any trimester. Circumstances under which we offer support includes, but is not limited to: miscarriage, missed miscarriage, stillbirth, difficult diagnosis, carrying to term (CTT) or termination for medical reasons (TFMR) in the case of a fatal diagnosis, or neonatal death.
Our services include the following:
- Certified birth & bereavement support
- Supported use of our CuddleCot, in hospital or in the home
- Professional photography (“maternity” and/or “newborn”)
- Memory making options and guidance
- Lactation consultation
- Post-partum information and support
- Monthly support group (Gone Too Soon)
- Online support group
- One-on-one mentoring
- Resources for family members (siblings, grandparents, etc.)
If someone has experienced/is experiencing a loss, how do they go about getting help?
If support is required immediately, a call can be placed to myself, Jasmin Herchak, at 306-260-6806. If it is not an emergency, we can be reached by email at support@emptyarmspls.com or by messaging our facebook page ( www.facebook.com/EmptyArmsPLS )
What is the cost for people wanting to get help from our organization?
All support and services are offered absolutely free of charge to families.
How does someone donate to Empty Arms and where do the donations go?
Donations can be made to Empty Arms in the following ways:
- A cheque can be mailed to:
EmptyArms
P.O. Box 2 Waldheim,SKS0K 4R0
- An e-transfer can be sent to donations@emptyarmpls.com The answer to the security question can then be sent in a separate email.
- Donations can also be made by credit card or through PayPal by visiting the following link,
https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=BAKMW2GMHD3SW
(Instructions and links can also be found on our facebook pagewww.facebook.com/EmptyArmsPLS )
All donations made to Empty Arms go towards supporting baby loss families. Operating a charity such as Empty Arms is no small feat and, since we do not charge families for any services, there are many costs associated with offering this type of support; things such as gift bags of mementos for families, honorariums for our birth & bereavement companions and photographers, supplies for the volunteers….We are a provincially registered non-profit organization (Nonprofit # 101286444) so any money raised/donated goes towards our goal of ensuring baby loss families have the support and resources they need.
Since we are a registered charity (Charity # 80982 6969 RR0001) we are able to issue receipts for income tax purposes. No matter which method is chosen for making a donation, we require the following information in order to issue a receipt: Full name (including middle initial) Mailing address and email address.
We appreciate donations of any amount, but we are only able to issue receipts for donations of $25 or more. Receipts are issued electronically within 5 business days of processing.
Are you looking for volunteers?
Yes, we are definitely interested in acquiring more volunteers! In order to reach the point where we can make sure we are able to provide support and services to any baby loss family who may be interested, we need a large group of individuals willing to be on call at designated times. We are looking for professional photographers, people who may be interested in certifying as a birth & bereavement doula, people who are interested in training to offer only bereavement support after baby is born, and ‘veteran’ baby loss parents who may be interested in offering 1-on-1 peer support to new perinatal loss parents. Due to the sensitive nature of these positions, we do have a process for learning more about those interested. This includes an application, information forms, an informal interview, and a criminal record check with a vulnerable sector search.
We also welcome volunteers who may be interested in helping with fundraising endeavors.
Those interested can send an email to info@emptyarmspls.com, indicating what volunteer position they would like more information about or what they are interested in applying for.